Can I Help?

This page is about my one-to-one helping offering, what it looks like, what’s in it for you and what is asked of you should you participate.

(You can go here anytime to book a 30 minute discovery time slot and find out experientially.)

Although I’m a coach and trainer, I don’t use these models here. It’s more like this: A stranger with a gift is knocking at the door, or outside wondering if it’s a good time. The stranger is knocking because his gift is important. It may have been a long time but it’s important¬† it be delivered and when the time is right it is. The challenge is to receive the gift.

The stranger’s gift is a next step in growth and development. My job is just to help with the introduction.¬† I don’t guide or encourage a particular direction. I don’t say what you should do. I use the same processes that I do for myself and I don’t like to be told what to do.

Sessions don’t look the same each time.

Another metaphor is a birth. Something is being born in you as it continually is in all of us if we can allow it. Even mini-births and births-in-progress like to be witnessed and welcomed.

Discovery often looks like a welcome, a welcome to what is emerging in you.


Human relations need a balance of giving and receiving if something good is to happen . The payment expresses that balance in the way we are with each other.
You can balance our time together in the spirit of a gift. You pay the amount that feels right for you in the form of a gift. This is not the same as free. It’s an amount that makes you feel complete in the transaction.
Sometimes the effect of working together may not become fully apparent for a long time. There’s no way to measure.
¬†Giving back places you in the tradition of giving and receiving what we’re learning now. You join the lineage of giving and receiving that I’ve received from my teachers and friends, most recently the excellent Khuyen Bui! I hope that you will be able to help others the world in a way that nourishes you.
One way to pick a good amount for you, treat it like a game that reflects the value you’re receiving. This gives you a chance to practice generosity that you want. And it gives me a chance to feel the feeling of gratitude. If you’ve chosen one you can pay it here!
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